odds and ends in fall

as we head into the holiday season, i wanted to make a note of odds and ends from the last few months. memories and instances that did not garner their own post but require recognition nonetheless.

can you find the exposed underwear, the cat ears, and dragon boots?

herschel was slow to warm to soccer but once he finally came around he really liked it. there was plenty of running around and shrieking. after one game herschel earned the "best listener" award. the award does not apply to at home behavior. 

season finale game complete with trophy and cheetos.

lots of intense games full of strategy and skill. run! kick! fall down! kick! do it again!

action shot:

there were three kids wearing the number 4 jersey on his team.

bunny whisperer

i love with athena blythe rebels against my normal outfit selections and adds her own additions. she was mad that i braided her hair and put out shorts and a t shirt for her to wear so she added the chef hat  and the extra dress to make her point. to everyone else she looked like she had escaped from an orphanage and was going through some sort of treatments.

scarlett and i had the women's broadcast. because of my calling i was in charge of the dessert and hors d'ouevres beforehand. i brought my pumpkin decorations for the food tables but i did manage to sneak in one skull just for fun. unfortunately, i had to do all the cleanup by myself. sisters, if you are at an activity, before you leave, please look around for what you can do to help clean up so that one person isn't stuck doing all of it and they miss half the broadcast. it was frustrating for me. i'm trying to think of the spiritual lesson but i think i just need to learn patience. again. 

scarlett had her choir concert. they did it in 30 minute increments by grade so that not all the parents had to sit through all the classes. brilliant. 

cute herschel-a-saurus

hersch in time out

pre-church herschel

athena blythe made halloween masks for everyone in the family. they were delightfully creepy.

i found a doll cake pan for cheap so i made a creep red velvet cake.

we also made a really dry eyeball cake. very disappointing.

this keeps happening. we were late for school one morning because i couldn't find herschel because he had hidden inside this pillow.

this was on the side of the road. it made me sad. 

athena blythe and herschel spending extended amounts of time in the backyard building squirrel tunnels and cages. 

the end.

congealing our family

the list of things i'm grateful this year would certainly include the fact that i don't have to lug a baby in a baby carrier around everywhere. also pretty grateful that hersch is potty trained. people always tell you that you'll miss the times when your kids are small, and i will, but there's plenty of stuff i won't miss. like clunky baby carriers, having to have diapers and wipers in every room of the house and in my car at all times, plotting your own demise when you forget the stroller and not doing certain activities because a baby wouldn't do well with them. we are already a family of quite a few accommodations but this most recent trip to waycross for thanksgiving was as "seat of our pants" as we've ever experienced. it was exhilarating! 48 hours and two hotel rooms later, we have experienced the beginning of family nirvana and it tastes a lot like ruby tuesday. mostly because we ate there twice on thanksgiving. 

before we left, athena blythe accompanied me to hersch's thanksgiving lunch at his school. hersch's teachers did it right because we had a huge platter of chik fil a nuggets and homemade macaroni and cheese with the baked cheese on top. i ate more macaroni and cheese than anyone else there. i won! 

we left for waycross on wednesday afternoon and spent thanksgiving morning exploring laura s. walker state park. 

we did the nature hike and it was perfectly not hard. there was still complaining but sometimes a little complaining is good so that the wild animals are scared away. you don't worry about your kids getting lost when you can still hear whining from miles away. i think whining may be the sound that travels the farthest in the shortest amount of time.

after the park, for lunch we ate at ruby tuesday. then we saw wreck it ralph 2: ralph breaks the internet the kids loved it. everyone watched the WHOLE THING and no one had to be taken out to the hallway to be entertained. thomas was able to check football updates because there were so few people in the theater and i took a bit of a nap. win win win. 

after the movie we headed to thomas's mom's house for dinner. then we headed back to ruby tuesday because there were zero desserts and we could not end this fun day on that note. i took no pictures because i was living in the moment! actually, it always bugs a bit when people say you can't enjoy as much if you are always taking pictures. there is some truth to that, but my mom brain is mush and i need photographic evidence of certain things otherwise that memory is irretrievable.

friday morning we headed to the Okefenokee swamp park, or the "land of the trembling earth" because the swamp ground is so unstable. thankfully, because no real babies were on this trip, this was the most stable i've felt while traveling in a long time! but, i also have a crazy digestive system so i could still be contributing to the trembling earth. that was a gas joke ladies and gentleman. that is what you came here for. 

 scarlett and herschel posing with local celebrity pogo the possum, star of the pogo comic strip that ran daily from 1948-75. 

 real live swamp gators. there were 5 in this particular area. since we were all getting along so well, i didn't feel the least bit tempted to throw anyone in. 

we did the swamp train. no one fell out. i pulled a doug beck and attempted to read all the informational placards.

this is the actual preserved carcass of a giant alligator named old roy that lived to be about 90.  he had to be placed in captivity because he used to follow the fisherman and attack their boats and steal their fish. fun times. he was 12 feet 10 inches long and weighed 650 pounds. 

at this point, people were starting to get less excited about the swamp.

the final activity was the touch and hold wild animal presentation. i'm pretty sure the presenter was on the autism spectrum so my mother heart was bursting with pride for him. reagan did a bang up job watching the wild animals being presented and then politely covered his ears and eyes when the snakes were brought out. 

accommodation adaptation visibility! WE ARE AUTISM! 

i just made up that autism cheer. 

my baby monsters with a baby alligator

after the swamp we drove back to atlanta in the pouring rain. 

the next day i made pies to make up for our lack of thanksgiving desserts. pies are not my forte but they turned out okay. they were even better the next day, which i find to be true of most things. congealing is a gross sounding word but a delicious result. kind of like raising a family. sometimes even better after a good amount of time has passed.

i halloween so hard

i survived october and so can you! such a glorious month of festivites and spookiness! 

here's my dining room tablescape:

i think even if you are hesitant about thrifting and don't feel confident in tablescapes, a something i would suggest is to find some old brass candlesticks of various sizes and shapes at goodwill. if you go even just a few times, chances are you will find some. they don't have to match, they just have to be a similar tone of brass. stack them on various heights of interesting looking books and you have a great foundation for a simple or elaborate tablescape. i also like to have multiples of things when i decorate so various pumpkins from hobby lobby or the dollar spot at target really fits the bill. a really great place for unusual decor gems is dollar tree. they had these spider web table cloths. i wish i had snagged several more for some spooky window draping. i do love my tablescape result. a imperfect yet artful disarray display seems about right for halloween.

using the same goodwill brass candlestick set that i got for a few bucks and a nativity on a simple tray really makes and great impact for a christmas vignette. our Savior's glorious birth is the focal point.

i'm clearly not a professional or even a semi-pro youtube "star" but decorating is actually a soothing thoughtful process for me. ashamedly, i didn't get a picture of my thanksgiving tablescape which used many of the same elements as halloween but i replaced the books stacks with green glass vases and pillar candles and a cornucopia. 

athena blythe had a special non-halloween but using all halloween elements school project. she had to create a craft pumpkin book character. she had a lot of ideas and i told her she had to do rotten ralph because it looked easiest. we had never read rotten ralph, but at my sister's suggestion we read a few a got started. EASY. 

my mom came and visited for halloween. it was a delight. she took these pre-church pictures. i look fantastic, thank you very much!

let's all be like grandma sandy. kind and loving. 

herschel had his preschool "book character" parade. it's actually a halloween parade! surprise! you can call it "book character" all you want but i know what it realllllly is. especially since we had orange and purple "book character" cupcakes and "book character" candies. "book character" pumpkin shaped reese's cups are the best. i just want to read and read and read.

scarlett is on board with going all out for halloween too so we dyed her hair! it's short term wash out color but we are definitely doing it again!!! we may do all the colors.

i'll wear plastic gloves next time too. planning for every eventuality is still on my short this of skills to improve upon.

scarlett, that homely troll, got her first round of braces off. 

we had our ward's "fall festival". it's similar to "book character" day. reallllly a halloween festival. we were the ONLY family to dress up. so we won all of the costume awards. 

i did another phenomenal job speed carving the pumpkins again on halloween afternoon. i got them all done and cleaned up in less than an hour. 

a monster truck, a cat, something scary, frankenstein and the bride of frankenstein and a vampire. all by request.

i really loved this one and i will probably duplicate it for the rest of my halloweeny years. 

my very simple halloween dinner snack. i didn't do my whole halloween meal, but this was super fun. i can't even remember what we ate that night besides this and handfuls of teeth-rotting high fructose corn sugar products. the best!

another one of my unfortunate looking kids:

i used sparkly green loose eye shadow and a giant round makeup brush to cover her face and neck in a layer of green. it was a lot of effort but she looked better than the real deal. it was so fun to brainstorm and put this together. 

better yet for scarlett, she went trick or treating BY HERSELF with a friend. she was so excited to not be trick or treating with these slowpokes. they covered miles and miles of neighborhood and got enough candy to see us through till christmas. who am i kidding? the good stuff last a couple of days and after a week i threw away the garbage candy no one likes.  

the crew sans scarlett did the same few streets we did last year and took our sweet and safe time, looking out for vicious, darth vader murdering dogs. luckily, darth vader(reagan) was spared. they all decided at the same time they were done and we went home after a pit stop at the neighbors to use the bathroom. we were so close yet so far from home. trick or treat and a potty, i always say. 

a firefighter, darth vader, gamora from guardians of the galaxy and fancy nancy(ooh la la!)